I’m here to help you filter the noise to focus on your ultimate priority: loving well. 

I’m here to help you create a home that wraps that love in a beautiful container

that reflects, encourages, and enhances that love.

LOVE FOUNDATIONS

• All house problems are relationship problems.
• Committing to your dreams is a cause worth pursuing.
• Perspective is everything-- you've always known it, and the research says so too.
• How to transform your house from a distraction to your biggest asset.
• Setting up a 20-year perspective.
• The 4 Intentional Dailies that will change your trajectory from overwhelm to over-the-moon.

LOVE YOURSELF

• Never leave your brain unattended.
• Pursuing false pleasures results in overspending.
• Loving now is the first step to loving well.
• Emotional responsibility is the key to realizing your dreams. But really.
• Knowing and having confidence in your right way. It'll be different from neighbor Susie's and your MIL's. That's good.
• How to meet your goals and supercharge your habits.
• Cultivating inner stillness (& feeling your feelings) will save you money, stress, and sanity. 

LOVE YOUR SPOUSE

• Establishing loving boundaries and rooting out manuals.
• Compromising is easier than you think.
• Navigating roles & divvying chores.
• Establishing meaningful traditions.
• In-Laws. Enough said.
• Learning to love unconditionally
• Money beliefs that are coming between the love.

LOVE YOUR KIDS

• Authoritative Parenting 101 and the 3 variables that actually matter.

• Using the home to instill character & values.

• Making all messes meaningful... or at least knowing it's an option.

• Gold Star Failure.

• Cultivating autonomy and independence.

• Nailing transitions. And hunger doldrums.

• Manners & Mealtimes & Meyhem (oh my!)

LOVE YOUR HOUSE

• The Negative Design Method and how to use it to solve any house conundrum.

• The 5 UNdesign elements of ultimate meaning making.

• Incoroporating inspiration literally and symbolically

• Shhhh! It's too loud! And other stimulation overload gotta-know-info.

• Clutter and organization: How to get your stuff together

• It's all in the details-- Bookshelves, art and throw pillow power.

• Radical Self Discipline-- how to follow a plan, a budget, a schedule, and create the house and life of your dreams.

Often my clients come to me saying things like:

“We're spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on our house purchase, and I want it to be beautiful, of course, but mostly I want it to be US. I want it to invite wonder and love and be the havenly sanctuary we all need. I can't find this kind of help on Pinterest!"

“How do I choose furniture that will wear well for a long time and look good too? We have active children and I really don't want to spend every day babysitting our possessions, but I'm feeling nervous about spending time, energy, and money toward things that might not work for us."

“We have a lot of stuff. Where do I start in how to think about it? I definitely don't want to move the things I don't want to keep, but thinking about going through it all and assigning it a place in our new home gives me hives.” 

“My husband and I have different ideas of what looks good. How do we combine our preferences without feeling like it’s just a jumble of random colors, styles, and decor? Navigating this has led to conflict already.”

Is this you too? Have you had these same concerns?

Here’s the best news ever: You're not alone, broken, or deficient.

This is what I help people with every single day.

You are in the right place, my friend.